Situation update:

[fancycwabs]

Separating finances, canceling joint credit cards, trying to make her aware of the situation.

I think, I think we've agreed to try to work on this instead of just calling it quits, but we're still separating our finances.

Thanks for all the advice, and all the positive thoughts, everyone. We've got a long way to go, in one direction or the other, but at least we're not ignoring the problem in hopes that it goes away.

Comments

[box-of-rocks.livejournal.com]

No advice or things of substance to say here, but I am sending good thoughts your way, for what it's worth.

[loree-borealis.livejournal.com]

*hug*

[mybadhairlife.livejournal.com]

While this is a terrible thing to go through, congratulations on doing it in a sensible way.

[hemlock-martini.livejournal.com]

Take good care of yourself.

[skatiemom.livejournal.com]

Not ignoring the problem is a good step.

*mojo*

[fastlearner.livejournal.com]

Much mojo, sir.

My only suggestion: give yourself time to really think before making any decision in any direction. It's very, very easy to make a lousy decision when upset.