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  •  The new iTunes visualizer is actually kinda awesome--I don't know if it's new with iTunes 8 or if it's just that I haven't been paying attention.
  • The neighbors have either turned off or secured their wireless router. I guess I'll have to shell out the dollas to replace our old one; as paying $45 a month for internet I can't use isn't very a very productive use of money. In any case, this is being posted from a bar with free wifi and $2.75 Sierra Nevada Porter.
  • Just to make a general announcement for those who haven't been privy to the goings-on of the last year or so: Mrs. Cwabs and I are getting a divorce. Like all divorces, the reasons for it are complicated, but the short version is that Mrs. Cwabs no longer wants to be married. I am various degrees of fine at the moment. We'll be selling the house, paying off all our debts (hopefully), and starting over as single people. The good news is that I will hopefully soon have both time and money to travel again. The bad news is that I will be losing someone that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, but honestly she hasn't been married to me in her heart for a long long time.

Date: 2008-09-14 08:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] grendelyn.livejournal.com
I'm very sorry to hear that. All the best to you and your family.

Date: 2008-09-14 11:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] redtheblue.livejournal.com
I hope both your lives are better on the other side of the divorce, and I hope you're much happier.

Date: 2008-09-14 11:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rabswom.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope that everything turns out for the best.

Date: 2008-09-15 12:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oldhubcap.livejournal.com
I'm sad to hear this. Best wishes to you.

Date: 2008-09-15 01:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] michoverde.livejournal.com
A hug for you!

Date: 2008-09-15 02:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mschilepepper.livejournal.com
It's tough to lose not only what you have now, but the might-have-beens and the future plans and all that. I've been there, my friend, and while it sucks hard now and will continue to suck for a while, it'll get better. It always does. Take care of you!

Date: 2008-09-15 06:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] loree-borealis.livejournal.com
Heavy. Hang in there, man.

Date: 2008-09-15 07:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kaikias.livejournal.com
Oh, man. Hope it all works out OK.

Date: 2008-09-15 11:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tansu.livejournal.com
Sorry for the loss of your future hopes.
May your actual future surprise you with awesomeness.

Date: 2008-09-15 12:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyopsqueene.livejournal.com
Ouch. I hope it all turns out better than you can imagine.

Date: 2008-09-15 12:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dimloep-suum.livejournal.com
Best of luck, dearie. It's not fun for anyone, but here's hoping everyone is a lot happier when it's over.

Date: 2008-09-15 12:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fancycwabs.livejournal.com
Well, on the bright side I should have a swingin' bachelor pad eventually--if I don't leave town entirely (there's not much to keep me in Memphis without a family) I'll probably end up downtown in a deluxe apartment in the sky.

Date: 2008-09-15 03:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] annicat.livejournal.com
*hugs*

Hope both you and the little cwab are managing ok.

FYI: there is light at the end of the tunnel and it's not a train. I think that those of us that have been through it can attest that it does and will get better once you can adjust to being single again.

Date: 2008-09-15 03:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fastlearner.livejournal.com
You have my continued support, my friend.

Date: 2008-09-15 03:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] resk.livejournal.com
I'm so, so sorry. I hope that the division of material things goes smoothly and that the 2 of you can have some kind of friendly relationship in the future.

Date: 2008-09-15 03:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fancycwabs.livejournal.com
I think we'll be cool with the division of material things--I know divorces have a way of bringing out the worst in people, but that aspect of it is one of the few areas I'm optimistic about.

Date: 2008-09-15 05:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hatgrlstargazer.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing ok.

Date: 2008-09-16 11:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phonemonkey.livejournal.com
Sorry about the divorce, as you know.

If travel takes you over the Atlantic, there's always a bed for you here.